"It will get easier, just wait."
It's a common sentiment, in one form or another. I've probably even used it myself. It's just not true.
I guess in a sense it is. The everyday pain has certainly eased. But each year on Sara Kay's birthday, it still feels like yesterday. Three years have gone by. It's a little shocking to think of it that way. It's a long time, especially watching Ava-Marie grow up, coming up on her second birthday.
We miss her everyday. Just as promised, we still say goodnight to Sara Kay, together, every single night. No matter what.
Remember us today, please. It doesn't get easier.